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2010 — Happy New Year

Having just finished another decade, and with me being born in 1960, this means I get to celebrate my 50th birthday this year. I have mixed feelings about that and will write more on that later on. 2010 got me to thinking about the past 10 years.

Here are my remembrances:

10. Y2K. What was all the fuss about time becoming the year 2000? I remember going to work at midnight hoping something would be amiss so I could go home. Not a chance.  Nothing went wrong and I worked my eight hour shift.

9.  I became a dad in the last decade. My son Isaac was born January 24, 2000 and my daughter Anika was born in 2002.  I love being a dad and it’s probably the best thing for me that I was a dad just before I turned 40.

8.  9/11 changed a lot of things in the world. But really had little impact on me personally. I remember watching the second plane crash into one of the twin towers and it seemed so surreal. I think that was due to the six hours I sat watching the Columbine High School tragedy. It seemed to make 9/11 less impacting. I do remember the silence and weirdness of no planes flying for many hours after the tragedy.  I also remember praying for days for every large jet I saw in the sky that they would reach all their destinations.

7.  My family and I took two trips to the “Happiest Place on Earth — Disneyland.”  Once in 2003 and then again in 2007.  Very good times. First trip we drove, with Anika only one year old. That made for an interesting adventure.

6.  Buying a new house created a fun, challenging, disappointing, time. Fun to watch it being built, challenging to sell a house in order to buy the new home, pick out the things we wanted in it and then the disappointment of losing a great job and not being able to afford the home anymore and having to sell low.

5. The best movies I saw:  Disney’s Cars, The Incredibles, Up, Both National Treasure movies, both Night at the Museum movies, High School Musical Trilogy, The Bourne Trilogy. When you have kids, you watch what you watch.

4.  Reconnecting with over 500 friends via Facebook. Probably one of the best things that happened to me in 2009.

3.  Celebrating my Grandma Grogan’s 90th birthday. Very nice to spend time with relatives we hadn’t seen in way-too-many years.

2.  Celebrating my parents 50th wedding anniversary.  Too much fun, especially seeing relatives and some pretty old friends.

1. In the past decade I was greatly impacted by how church was done, is being done, and isn’t being done.  I spent hours studying church growth, creating community with those far from God, creating and administrating different ministries, including young adults, children’s ministries, and small groups, and today I have a way better understanding of what people who don’t attend church, need or want.  So much time and money spent on helping those already on their way to Heaven, developing leaders, when all Jesus really wants us to do is hang out with those who don’t have a relationship with Him. I pledge to do much better at spending time with those far from God. God has given me a great opportunity to do just that. I currently work full-time in the grocery department of a Walmart Super Store.  I meet and work with people every day who need to be connected to a loving, forgiving, life-changing God.  This last decade has challenged me to make a difference in other people’s lives.  Happy New Year 2010. May it be a good year for you and yours.

January 3, 2010 - Posted by | Creating Community | , ,

2 Comments »

  1. Hi Charles,
    I enjoyed reading your decade reflections. I commend you for even being able to remember the past decade.

    I especially like #4 because that includes me, and #1 (I just now noticed you went in descending order). I’ve been telling folks that ‘church’ is really for Christians rather than for sinners thus we need be out there following Jesus’ example; but they don’t seem to get it. It would require thinking outside the ol’ ‘church’ box. The early church (aka: body of Christ) didn’t even meet in a building rather lived their lives amongst the folks God put them in contact with; as you are doing at work. Growing up in the A/G I have this mentality that I must only ‘commune’ with Christians and keep myself separated from sinners. I hope they have changed curriculum since I was a lass, as it only serves the plan of the enemy: keeping the “aroma of God” (2 Cor. 2:14 & 15) bottled up in a church building. It is confusing, I must admit, because the Bible says to separate yourselves from the world (2 Cor. 6:17) yet to go out into all the world.
    In 2 Cor. 2:16 God asks, “who is equal to such a task”, and I believe you are, Charles. So God’s favor and blessing be upon you, my friend.

    Comment by Leanne Halling | January 4, 2010 | Reply

  2. Thanks for the response Leanne. Your comment regarding the early church not meeting in a building (but in houses) is the thought line I’ve been thinking about a lot lately. Since I wasn’t able to go to church for about three months other than helping on Wednesday nights, I had lots of time to think about those who don’t go to church and where could they go and engage a “Christian way of living.” Still pondering it. A few years ago I had the wonderful privilege of leading three separate small groups. Two similtaneously, and one finishing and then starting the other and I found that small group ministry made a far greater impact on those attending, including my family and myself, than attending church. We could ask and answer pointed questions without anyone feeling they were out of line or speaking at an inappropriate time. For the young adults, I actually took one evening a month to be the “Bible-answer guy.” Even though I put out the disclaimer that I didn’t know everything, I’d give their questions the best shot. Those days were the best of times. I look forward to seeing if I have any takers at Walmart who would be interested in eternal thinking.

    Comment by charliereport | January 4, 2010 | Reply


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